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“Take Care Of Your Husbands, Don’t Allow Society Corrupt You” — UK Police To Nigerian Wives [VIDEO]

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The Metropolitan Police in the UK has stirred debate with unconventional guidance given to Nigerian wives during a church service in London.

At Divine Restoration International Church in Camberwell on Sunday, a police officer, reportedly of Nigerian descent, addressed the congregation in fluent Yoruba.

In a two-minute, 20-second video that went viral on Tuesday, the officer encouraged Nigerian wives to resolve marital disputes amicably and lovingly.

The advice comes amid reports of Nigerian wives in the UK reporting their husbands to the authorities for various issues, including domestic violence, child abuse, and cultural misunderstandings.

The officer cautioned the women against societal influences, sparking online discussion on the police’s approach to addressing domestic issues within the Nigerian community in the UK.

Critics argue the advice may be perceived as shifting focus away from accountability for perpetrators and potentially endangering victims.

The police officer said: “We all pray never to see our children’s graveyards; Nigerians have always prayed to leave children behind, but today, it seems the opposite is happening. We must change our mindset, especially women who feel their husbands are unimportant. They should return to their roots. You see, that man (husband), even if he isn’t contributing much, just being at home sometimes makes a difference. As a woman, there are times when you may want to talk to your child, and they might not listen to you, but they will listen to their father.

“But if you’re a mother on your own, the child might not obey you. However, when the father says ‘stop,’ the child will obey. Even if the man isn’t doing much, try as much as possible to manage it. Though there’s little room for management, how we build our homes sometimes matters. Some women feel men are insignificant because of the circumstances we find ourselves in. We are here because we want to help people back in Nigeria, but if you look at some of them back home, they are looking better than you, and don’t think if you don’t send money to them, you’ll die. Please, take care of your husband.”

Furthermore, the police urged the women to prioritise their homes and not allow the influences of society to undermine their marriages.

“Women, think about your home, and if you allow the society we live in to corrupt us, it becomes a problem. We’ve got to work together and make it work. We, the police, are here to help you; we’re not your enemies but your friends. If you have any problems, discuss them with us, and we can give you advice,” the police said.

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Analysing the trending video on TVC’s Journalists’ Hangout, Mayor Akinpelu, Publisher of Global Excellence Magazine, said peer influence is a significant factor in the rising trend of “women using the police to evict their husbands from home”.

He further noted that this phenomenon is becoming increasingly common in Europe and America because of the growing empowerment of women in the regions.

“They believe that, especially when kids are involved, the woman is in a better place to care for them. So, they give up all privileges against the man. It’s worse in America than in the UK. When you get to London, or when you get to the UK, you realise that there are a lot of single mothers; the reason is that when you have a problem with your husband, you can call the police.

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“The police will tell the husband to move out of the house, and then the woman will start collecting benefits from the government to take care of the kids. Sometimes, it’s even better for a woman not to have a husband because she collects a lot of money on each child, and even if she has a child that has health challenges, maybe a Down syndrome or something, she collects more money. So, that’s part of the problem,” he noted.

Mr Akinpelu also said the UK system is biased against men, noting that this systemic bias has led to a significant number of Nigerian men being incarcerated.

He said, “A Nigerian man would leave America to his village in the South-east to pick a wife, believing that the woman is a fresh person, and he doesn’t want to deal with the women in America because they won’t listen to him. Then he takes the lady to America; maybe he is a security man trying to make ends meet, but he decides to send the lady to school. Most nursing schools and the medical profession in America are well-paid, especially nurses. The woman graduates from nursing school and starts earning better than the guy.

“And then when the lady starts attending those cultural associations, maybe Nigerian associations from this state or from that state, they will meet other women. They will say, this is America. Don’t allow any man to tell you anything. This is America. You have every right in this country. And that’s how it works. So when they have issues or issues at any time, the lady calls the police. The police will come and say no matter what happens, they will ask the man to move out before investigating anything. If couples have issues, they ask the man to move out first.”

According to him, despite eviction, the men are still responsible for domestic payments, while the women receive financial support from the government.

“When the man moves out, if things get serious, the woman can complain that he’s harassing her. They will give the man a restriction order not to be some kilometres around that premises.

Meanwhile, the man will continue paying the mortgage for the house they sent him out from. So it gets to a stage where the man gets frustrated and then just kills the woman. It happens a lot in America. The man will just get frustrated and kill the woman. But what I want to say is that Nigerian women in Europe and America should know that no matter how long they stay there or carry the passports of those places, they are not from there.

“So the women need to look at Nigeria culture and how we do things. I’m not saying that marriage is perfect in Nigeria, but we have mechanisms to resolve differences between couples. If there is a problem between couples, their family members will come and try to convince you and all that.”

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Tinubu Conference Centre Made N650m In Three Weeks, People Are Rushing It — Wike

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Nyesom Wike, minister of the federal capital territory (FCT), says the Bola Tinubu International Conference Centre recorded N650 million in revenue within three weeks of its launch.

During a media parley on Thursday, Wike explained that the conference centre underwent a complete renovation, noting that “the only thing that we didn’t do in that structure was to bring the whole thing down”.

He mentioned that prior to the renovation, the conference centre generated only N50 million annually for the FCT.

“Now let me tell you how this country works. The man they gave it (conference centre) to was paying N50 million to the FCT every year. That place was commissioned on June 10, and the revenue made within three weeks was N650 million. Why? People love good things,” he stated.

He added that the facility hosted the Economic Community of West African States (ECOWAS) heads of state, with positive remarks from ambassadors. According to him, the venue has become highly sought after.

“In fact, there’s no space. As I speak, it has been booked up to 2027.”

Wike recalled facing criticism from politicians and senior government officials when he initially closed the centre.

“The country we’re in is a place that if you begin to pay attention to frivolities, you won’t achieve anything,” he said.

“And now you’re saying, why did I name it after Tinubu. Who should I name it after? Who is more qualified?”

The FCT administration had faced backlash for spending N39 billion to renovate the conference centre.

Wike was also criticised for naming the revamped centre after the president.

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BREAKING: Abure-Led Labour Party Asks Peter Obi To Resign In 48 Hours For Joining ADC Coalition

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The Julius Abure-led faction of the Labour Party has given Peter Obi, the party’s 2023 presidential candidate, a 48-hour deadline to resign from the party over his involvement in a newly formed opposition coalition.

In a statement on Thursday, Obiora Ifoh, spokesperson for the party, restated the party’s opposition to the coalition, describing it as a collection of “recycled, desperate and frustrated politicians”.

“Former Presidential candidate of the Labour Party, Peter Gregory Obi has received a 48 hour ultimatum to formally resign his membership of the Labour Party having formally joined the coalition party,” the statement said.

Obi, who was present at the unveiling of the African Democratic Congress coalition in Abuja, said on Thursday that his decision to join the party picked by the opposition coalition was not made lightly.

Ifoh claimed that Obi had been holding secret meetings with some members of the Labour Party to convince them to join the coalition.

“We are aware of several nocturnal meetings between Peter Obi and some of our members, lobbying them to join him in his new party. We’re also aware that a number of them have refused to defect with him,” he stated.

“Labour Party has consistently said it is not part of the coalition, and therefore, any of our members who are part of the coalition are given 48 hours to formally resign their membership of the party.

“Labour Party is not available for people with dual agenda, people with deceptive persona. The party will not avail itself to individuals who have one leg in one party and another leg elsewhere.

“People who, in the morning, claim to be in the Labour Party and in the evening are in the coalition.

“Nearly 70 percent of the Nigerian population are youths who are tired of the old order, tired of gerontocrats deciding their fate.

“The new Nigeria that the youths are dreaming of is not what can be realised from what we are seeing in the coalition.

“These people are opportunistic politicians who are only interested in relaunching themselves into the circle of power — people who are desperate to continue holding on to power.”

The spokesperson also stressed that the Labour Party remains focused on Nigeria’s progress and called on members to remain committed and uphold the party’s structure.

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US Court Jails France-Based Nigerian Ofioritse Jemide 41 Months For $8m Fraud

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A Nigerian residing in France, Newton Ofioritse Jemide, who was extradited to the United States for his role in an $8m disaster fraud scheme, has been sentenced to three years and five months in prison.

Jemide received his sentence on Tuesday from Judge Deborah K. Chasanow of a US District Court.

Earlier report had it that Jemide, aged 47, was extradited from France after being found guilty of fraudulently acquiring federal grants intended for vulnerable US citizens.

According to the US Department of Justice, Jemide and his associates stole the identities of US citizens to open Green Dot accounts, which were then used to apply for federal benefits meant for wildfire victims between 2016 and 2017.

The US DoJ explained that Jemide and others in Nigeria instructed their partners in the US to purchase hundreds of Green Dot debit cards.

It said, “Co-conspirators living in Nigeria then registered the cards with Green Dot using stolen personal information from identity theft victims around the United States.

“As a result of fraudulent submissions, FEMA and the other federal agencies deposited benefits onto the Green Dot debit cards.

“Jemide and select co-conspirators informed other co-conspirators when the fraudulent funds became available on the debit cards and gave them information to cash out the funds from the cards in exchange for a commission.”

The US DoJ noted that Jemide and his accomplices took measures to hide their identities by using others to make purchases and withdrawals, conducting transactions at various stores and banks, and purchasing money orders made out to different individuals or businesses.

Providing an update on the case, the US DoJ stated in a release on its website on Wednesday that “FEMA dispersed $500 per claim on the Green Dot debit cards that the co-conspirators purchased for a total of at least $8 million.”

After pleading guilty, Jemide was sentenced to 41 months in prison followed by three years of supervised release.

The court also ordered him to pay $520,431 in restitution and to forfeit $311,036 to the US government.

“US District Judge Deborah K. Chasanow sentenced Newton Ofioritse Jemide, 47, a Nigerian national extradited from France, to 41 months in federal prison for his role in a scheme to fraudulently obtain federal benefits.

“Jemide will also serve three years of supervised release, and pay $520,431.83 of restitution, and a forfeiture money judgment was entered against him in the amount of $311,036.64,” the statement concluded.

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