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“Take Care Of Your Husbands, Don’t Allow Society Corrupt You” — UK Police To Nigerian Wives [VIDEO]

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The Metropolitan Police in the UK has stirred debate with unconventional guidance given to Nigerian wives during a church service in London.

At Divine Restoration International Church in Camberwell on Sunday, a police officer, reportedly of Nigerian descent, addressed the congregation in fluent Yoruba.

In a two-minute, 20-second video that went viral on Tuesday, the officer encouraged Nigerian wives to resolve marital disputes amicably and lovingly.

The advice comes amid reports of Nigerian wives in the UK reporting their husbands to the authorities for various issues, including domestic violence, child abuse, and cultural misunderstandings.

The officer cautioned the women against societal influences, sparking online discussion on the police’s approach to addressing domestic issues within the Nigerian community in the UK.

Critics argue the advice may be perceived as shifting focus away from accountability for perpetrators and potentially endangering victims.

The police officer said: “We all pray never to see our children’s graveyards; Nigerians have always prayed to leave children behind, but today, it seems the opposite is happening. We must change our mindset, especially women who feel their husbands are unimportant. They should return to their roots. You see, that man (husband), even if he isn’t contributing much, just being at home sometimes makes a difference. As a woman, there are times when you may want to talk to your child, and they might not listen to you, but they will listen to their father.

“But if you’re a mother on your own, the child might not obey you. However, when the father says ‘stop,’ the child will obey. Even if the man isn’t doing much, try as much as possible to manage it. Though there’s little room for management, how we build our homes sometimes matters. Some women feel men are insignificant because of the circumstances we find ourselves in. We are here because we want to help people back in Nigeria, but if you look at some of them back home, they are looking better than you, and don’t think if you don’t send money to them, you’ll die. Please, take care of your husband.”

Furthermore, the police urged the women to prioritise their homes and not allow the influences of society to undermine their marriages.

“Women, think about your home, and if you allow the society we live in to corrupt us, it becomes a problem. We’ve got to work together and make it work. We, the police, are here to help you; we’re not your enemies but your friends. If you have any problems, discuss them with us, and we can give you advice,” the police said.

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Analysing the trending video on TVC’s Journalists’ Hangout, Mayor Akinpelu, Publisher of Global Excellence Magazine, said peer influence is a significant factor in the rising trend of “women using the police to evict their husbands from home”.

He further noted that this phenomenon is becoming increasingly common in Europe and America because of the growing empowerment of women in the regions.

“They believe that, especially when kids are involved, the woman is in a better place to care for them. So, they give up all privileges against the man. It’s worse in America than in the UK. When you get to London, or when you get to the UK, you realise that there are a lot of single mothers; the reason is that when you have a problem with your husband, you can call the police.

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“The police will tell the husband to move out of the house, and then the woman will start collecting benefits from the government to take care of the kids. Sometimes, it’s even better for a woman not to have a husband because she collects a lot of money on each child, and even if she has a child that has health challenges, maybe a Down syndrome or something, she collects more money. So, that’s part of the problem,” he noted.

Mr Akinpelu also said the UK system is biased against men, noting that this systemic bias has led to a significant number of Nigerian men being incarcerated.

He said, “A Nigerian man would leave America to his village in the South-east to pick a wife, believing that the woman is a fresh person, and he doesn’t want to deal with the women in America because they won’t listen to him. Then he takes the lady to America; maybe he is a security man trying to make ends meet, but he decides to send the lady to school. Most nursing schools and the medical profession in America are well-paid, especially nurses. The woman graduates from nursing school and starts earning better than the guy.

“And then when the lady starts attending those cultural associations, maybe Nigerian associations from this state or from that state, they will meet other women. They will say, this is America. Don’t allow any man to tell you anything. This is America. You have every right in this country. And that’s how it works. So when they have issues or issues at any time, the lady calls the police. The police will come and say no matter what happens, they will ask the man to move out before investigating anything. If couples have issues, they ask the man to move out first.”

According to him, despite eviction, the men are still responsible for domestic payments, while the women receive financial support from the government.

“When the man moves out, if things get serious, the woman can complain that he’s harassing her. They will give the man a restriction order not to be some kilometres around that premises.

Meanwhile, the man will continue paying the mortgage for the house they sent him out from. So it gets to a stage where the man gets frustrated and then just kills the woman. It happens a lot in America. The man will just get frustrated and kill the woman. But what I want to say is that Nigerian women in Europe and America should know that no matter how long they stay there or carry the passports of those places, they are not from there.

“So the women need to look at Nigeria culture and how we do things. I’m not saying that marriage is perfect in Nigeria, but we have mechanisms to resolve differences between couples. If there is a problem between couples, their family members will come and try to convince you and all that.”

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Bandits Kill Three, Kidnap Scores In Kaduna Church Attack

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A group of bandits carried out a violent attack on a church service in Bakinpah-Maro, Kajuru Local Government Area of Kaduna State.

The incident occurred on Sunday morning around 10:00 AM, targeting both an ECWA and a Catholic church.

At least three people were killed in the attack, and a large number of individuals are feared to have been kidnapped. Among the missing is Pastor Bernard Gajera, a prominent figure from one of the churches.

Cafra Caino, a former Chairman of Kajuru LGA, confirmed the tragic event and reported that 30 people were abducted, including Pastor Bernard Gajera from one of the churches.

Caino said, “The terrorists attacked the churches during service, killing three people and abducting many others. The community is in shock, and we urge the authorities to take immediate action to rescue the kidnapped victims.”

The attack comes after the Maro community raised funds to build a security post for law enforcement agencies, following repeated attacks that have prevented farmers from accessing their farmlands.

The kidnapping of Pastor Gajera and many others has sparked fears of a growing trend of targeting religious leaders and communities.

The incident has left the community in a state of fear, with many calling for increased security measures to protect lives and property.

A local resident said, “We urge the government to take decisive action to address the security challenges in our community. We cannot continue to live in fear of bandits and kidnappers.”

Another eyewitness under anonymity, described the attack as horrific.

“When the bandits arrived in large numbers, many worshippers fled the church,” the eyewitness said. “It was a horrendous sight. We were helpless as we watched the bandits wreak havoc.”

The eyewitness called on the government to intensify efforts to protect lives and property in the southern part of the state.

“We can only call on both the state and federal governments, despite their efforts, to continue to try harder for the safety of lives and property in southern part of the state,” the eyewitness said.

As of the time of filing this report, the police are yet to comment on the incident. However, the attack has raised concerns about the escalating insecurity in the region.

Meanwhile, the Chief of Defence Staff, Gen Christopher Musa, on Monday, urged troops on the front line across the country to redouble their efforts in defending the nation.

He also urged them to continue to exhibit the highest standard of discipline and loyalty to the country while going about their duties.

This was contained in a statement by the Director, Defence Information, Brig. Gen. Tukur Gusau.

Gusau said, “Musa called on our gallant troops to redouble their efforts in defending our motherland and to also continue to uphold the highest standards of discipline, loyalty and integrity that are hallmarks of the Armed Forces of Nigeria.

“He also urged them to continue to work in unity with other security agencies in order to defeat the forces of evil and to restore peace and stability across our nation. He further called on all Nigerians to embrace the virtues of tolerance, mutual understanding, and respect for constitutional authority.”

According to the statement, the CDS also saluted members of the Armed Forces who had demonstrated an unwavering commitment and valour in the face of various security challenges confronting our dear country.

“Particularly, the courage and bravery of the troops of Operation Fansan Yamma in Zamfara State for bringing down a notorious bandit leader, Haliru Buzu, and others. The CDS also extended his appreciation to the troops of Operation Hadin Kai in Maiduguri for their noble role in rescuing thousands of flood victims during the recent devastating flood in Maiduguri.”

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American Rapper Diddy Arrested In New York Amid Sexual Assault Lawsuits

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Sean “Diddy” Combs, a prominent US rapper, was taken into custody in New York City on unspecified federal charges.

Homeland Security Investigations officers arrested the 54-year-old hip-hop mogul on Monday at his temporary residence, the Park Hyatt New York hotel located on 57th Street.

Damian Williams, the US attorney for the southern district of New York, confirmed the rapper’s arrest in a statement shared via X (formerly known as Twitter)

While the charges against Combs are unclear, Williams said “we expect to move to unseal the indictment in the morning and will have more to say at that time”.

Diddy has been in the public eye since November 2023 after several women, including Cassie Ventura, the rapper’s ex-girlfriend, took him to court, claiming they were sexually assaulted.

Rodney “Lil Rod” Jones, Diddy’s former producer, also filed a lawsuit alleging that the rapper sexually harassed, drugged, and threatened him for over a year.

In March, the United States Department of Homeland Security raided two properties linked to Diddy.

In May, a video surfaced showing Combs assaulting Cassie in 2016.

Diddy, who had denied Cassie’s claims, however, apologised. He said he was “truly sorry” and that his actions were “inexcusable”.

A Michigan inmate was recently awarded $100 million for a sexual assault lawsuit against Diddy by default judgment.

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CBN May Halt Interest Rate Hike — Bloomberg Report

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Nigeria’s annual inflation rate decreased to a six-month low in August, offering the Central Bank of Nigeria (CBN) a potential opportunity to pause its aggressive interest rate hikes.

The National Bureau of Statistics reported that consumer prices rose by 32.2% in August, down from 33.4% in July.

The slowdown in inflation was primarily attributed to the diminishing impact of the recent devaluation of the naira and the removal of fuel subsidies.

These measures were implemented by President Bola Tinubu as part of his economic reforms aimed at attracting foreign investment and reducing government spending.

The easing inflation rate may provide the CBN with a window to halt its series of interest rate increases, which have been aimed at combating rising prices.

Higher corn yields and a six-month window to import the crop and wheat duty-free also contributed to the softening in price increases.

Data collection was concluded before mid-August, so the effect of a 45 percent increase in gasoline prices in early September, which saw a bump in transport costs, was not captured.

The slowdown raises the prospect that policymakers will pause a tightening cycle that’s lifted the benchmark rate to 26.75 percent from 11.5 percent in just over two years. It will also give the monetary policy committee, which will announce its decision on Sept. 24, time to assess the impact of recent currency volatility, devastating floods in northeastern Nigeria and the increase in gasoline prices on inflation.

Food inflation slowed to 37.5 percent in August from 39.5 percent a month earlier. Core price growth, which excludes agricultural produce and energy, quickened to 27.6 percent from 27.5 percent.

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