Kafayat Shafau, also known as Kaffy, a Nigerian celebrity dancer, has spoken up about her divorce from her spouse, Joseph Ameh.
Marriage, she believed, should be an alignment of destinies, but this was not the case in her marriage.
On Monday night, the mother-of-two mentioned this in a video on her Instagram page that was a clip from her new podcast.
Divorce or separation, according to Kaffy, should not be toxic or bitter.
“Marriage is supposed to be an alignment of destinies leading to a place God wishes for them,” she explained. And it didn’t work out that way for me.
“Rather than seeing someone as a problem, consider the possibility that you are that person’s problem.”
“Being an enabler of someone’s not being able to do what they are supposed to do can also be that you’re not supposed to be in that space.
“So there was a lot to learn and there’s still a lot more to learn.”
In the video caption, the dancer stated that separation was not the end of life for the parties involved.
“Separation isn’t the end of life for both parties involved. In fact, if you both are honest about why you have to go apart, you will realize how much better life can be,” she wrote.
The dancer added, “Some people make it back, some don’t . What is ultimate is the outcome borne out of love!”
Kaffy was married to Joseph Ameh, the music director and former drummer for Nigerian duo P-Square and they have two children together.
