Tears streamed down the face of 31-year-old Blessing (not real name) as she narrated how her whirlwind romance with a 67-year-old Irish construction worker in Lagos, ended in her getting infected with HIV.
For Blessing, her pain was not just because she had got the virus but that the man, she identified simply as Jim, even intensified his sexual intercourse with her after he learnt of his status more than two years ago.
Blessing walked into the Area F Police Command, Ikeja on Thursday, inconsolable to report Jim’s alleged action.
When she faced journalists on Friday, however, things took a dramatic turn as she screamed at reporters and shielded the man she had accused from being interviewed and photographed.
“You see what you have done now? We could have settled this at home,” she was heard telling the man, who also became furious and lashed out at reporters.
“Jackass, liars. Get out of here,” the Irish man told journalists.
When the scene calmed down somewhat, Blessing launched into a narration of a romance, which she said later devastated her.
She said, “We have been dating for some years. I work as a real estate agent, while he works with a construction company.
“In January 2014, he became ill. He was always sweating and running temperature. So, I accompanied him to see his doctor in a hospital in Ikeja. He was given treatment for malaria but the hospital also ran some tests and usually, they run HIV tests without telling the patient just to be sure.
“When the result came out, we went to see the doctor. I heard the man asking him if I was his sex partner but he said no. The man also asked if he could speak with him in my presence, he said no. When we left, he was given some drugs, which he hid from me.
“Any time he wanted to take the drug, he hid it. Then one day, I caught him taking the same drug. I asked him what it was for and he said it was for a recurrent leg pain he was getting. I wrote down the name of the drug and searched for it on Google. That was when I learnt that it was anti-retroviral drug used for HIV.
“I confronted Jim and asked if he had HIV, he denied it flatly. I then told him to give me his doctor’s number so that I could confirm myself. He said no. While he was sleeping, I took his doctor’s number from his phone and called the man. The doctor told me that he could not speak on the phone and said I should come and see him. When I went there, he broke the news to me that Jim was HIV positive. He then decided to run a test on me. It confirmed that I was HIV positive. I felt like dying.
“I was so angry because he deliberately infected me. I know this because he protected his family. Around the time we went to the doctor together, he sent his wife abroad to ensure she did not contract the virus. But in my case, the sex even intensified that I was happy that he was falling in love with me more every day.”
Blessing said after the initial test, which showed she was HIV positive, the doctor recommended a second test, which again proved that she was indeed HIV positive.
According to her, she was devastated and angry at how her life had changed for the worse.
“Jim denied that he infected me and even accused me of infecting him even though the doctor said this could not have been so considering the fact that it had not manifested in my body in any way, while he had fallen sick long ago,” Blessing said.
She said despite her anger, she still did not want to report the matter to the police.
She said, “But I told Jim that he had to take care of the cost of my medication and had to make sure I was comfortable since he was the one who infected me. He then agreed to pay me N2.5m.
“But he started abusing me. He would say no man would dare marry a girl with a disease like me. I threatened to report him to the police and he said I should go ahead. He said I would become depressed and commit suicide due to stigma if I did that.
“I packed out of his house in anger. Then, one day, I went to his house and found him in bed with my best friend. He did not care. The humiliation was why I decided to finally come to report to the police.”
In Nigeria, non-disclosure of HIV status to a sexual partner and deliberate infection of a partner are criminal offences enshrined in the Sexual Offences Act 2015.
Section 24 and 39 of the law criminalises the “intentionally, knowingly and willfully” transmitting HIVand an act where a person “intentionally fails to disclose to the person in respect of whom an act which causes penetration is being committed, that he or she is infected by HIV or any other life-threatening sexual transmissible disease.”
Jim, who was furious for most part of the encounter with journalists, continued to say that Blessing infected him instead.
“She wanted money from me,” he said.
Jim said he had been in Nigeria for more than 40 years.
The Police Public Relations Officer, DolapoBadmus, said the police were still conducting investigation on the case.
She said, “At the moment, we are treating the lady as the victim and the man as the suspect. If our investigation reveals anything to the contrary, we will amend our focus on the case.
“But we are also going to look for the friend, whom the complainant said she found naked with the man to determine her status. If we find her and she requires test and treatment, we will ensure she gets that as soon as possible.”
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President Tinubu Inaugurates Three Gas Projects, Says They’ll Drive Economic Growth [PHOTOS]
Nigeria’s President, Asiwaju Bola Ahmed Tinubu, has inaugurated three critical gas infrastructure projects in Nigeria.
The Nigerian National Petroleum Company (NNPC) Limited, AHL, and Sterling Oil Exploration & Energy Production Company Limited (SEEPCO) jointly control the 200 million standard cubic feet per day (mmscf/d) AHL Gas Processing Plant 2 (GPP – 2), which Tinubu officially opened.
It is an addition to Delta’s Kwale Gas Processing Plant (GPP – 1). Additionally, the president officially opened the ANOH-OB3 CTMS gas pipeline project and the ANOH gas processing plant, both operated by NNPC and AGPC Seplat Energy and situated in the state of Imo.
In a virtual speech, Tinubu stated that the three gas projects help the federal government’s goal of reducing gas flaring and increasing the value of the country’s gas resources.
Tinubu also commended NNPC and other partners for completing the projects within 11 months, and not two years as earlier planned.
“It is pleasing that approximately 500MMscf of gas in aggregate would be supplied to the domestic market from these two gas processing Plants, which represents over 25% incremental growth in gas supply,” he said.
“In practical terms, this is more gas to the power sector, gas-based industries and other critical segments of the economy.”
The president said the federal government is stepping up its coordination of other landmark projects and initiatives to ensure the earliest realisation of gas-fueled prosperity in the country.
He also assured investors in the energy space that “this is an investment enabling the government and we will not relent in facilitating the ease of doing business”.
“The theme of this commissioning, ‘From Gas to Prosperity; Renewed Hope,’ must be adopted by all gas sector participants and would-be investors as a clarion call to ramp up efforts to accelerate investment and developments of projects in the gas sector on a win-win basis,” Tinubu added.
He further commended NNPC and its partners, SEEPCO and Seplat Energy, for the laudable and value-adding projects.
On his part, Mele Kyari, group chief executive officer (GCEO) of NNPC, said the three infrastructure projects will enable additional gas processing capacity and also increase the supply of liquefied petroleum gas (LPG), thereby, reducing the dependency on importation.
“NNPC is currently executing several major gas infrastructure projects such as the Ajaokuta-Kaduna-Kano pipeline with the associated power plants, the full delivery of the wider OB3 project shortly and also progressing with other initiatives such as fertiliser and petrochemical plants, small and large scale LNG and floating LNG” Kyari said.
He said the projects present the opportunity to monetise the country’s abundant natural gas resources, by expanding access to energy to support economic growth, industrialisation, and job creation.
In his remarks, Ekperikpe Ekpo, minister of petroleum resources (gas), said in keeping with the climate control agenda, the government decided to use gas as the transition fuel to achieve green energy by 2060.
“The decision to eliminate fuel subsidies at the start of your administration has compelled increased spending in the upstream and midstream gas development, and the use of gas as an appropriate, more cost-effective, and cleaner alternative to diesel and gasoline,” Ekpo said.
The minister added that the plant will promote rapid industrialization in Nigeria and boost power generation.
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