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How I Survived Suicidal Thoughts, 14 Heartbreaks, 15 Abortions, Divorce And Alcoholism — Lara Kudayisi Don-Momoh [VIDEO]

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Renowned Author, Cognitive Behavioural Therapist and Family Life Coach Lara Kudayisi Don- Momoh popularly known as DearCoachLara shares insight into how she overcame life challenges such as Suicidal thoughts, several heartbreaks, alcoholism etc.

DearCoachLara who’s life story went viral because she healed from having a child at 19, underwent 14 heartbreaks, experienced 15 abortions and a divorce, has since dedicated her life to helping other heal after overcoming life challenges.

Speaking with PorscheClassy Media on her life experience before healing, she said,

“If you know the story of my life, you will know that I have come a long way.

I was a walking pain.

Pain was my middle name.

I escaped into Alcohol. I became an Alcoholic for a bit as I couldn’t sleep except I downed vodka.

I even tried to end it all at some point because I was tired of doing all of these, but that day, I remembered my 15-year-old daughter at the time and my 3-year-old son even though I wanted to end the pain, I didn’t want to die.

So, I went on a journey of Healing. A journey of Rehabilitation. A Journey of Creating a New Beginning and today, we are here.

I see you.

I see your pain and anguish and I want to help you” she said.

Book a session with DearCoachLara today so she can help you heal, find joy, and create a new beginning.

Send her a DM on Instagram @dearcoachlara, visit www.larakudayisiinternational.com, or Call 08039927467 now.

 

  • About DearCoachLara

Lara Kudayisi Don- Momoh is a Certified Cognitive Behavioural Therapist and Family Life Coach popularly known as DearCoachLara, She specializes in Healing, Family Life and Mind Reprogramming.

Lara Kudayisi Don- Momoh is a practitioner of Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP), an Eriksonian Hypnosis expert, a Neurological Repatterning coach, Performance Consultant, Family Life Coach, Emotional Intelligence coach, Anger Management advisor, Fear Mastery Coach and a Cognitive Behavioral Therapist.

She helps people heal from Childhood Dysfunctions and Emotional Traumas through her program; THE HEALING SCHOOL and her private Therapy Sessions.

She is also the Chief Executive Officer of LARA KUDAYISI INTERNATIONAL; an organization that specializes in Therapy, Coaching, Couple’s Therapy, Finding Love After Trauma, Life After Divorce and Coaching Certification.

She is the Author of 4 books namely;

1. DEAR LARA WHAT DO I DO?

2. WHAT IS WRONG WITH MY TASTE IN MEN(for Single Ladies)

3. HOW THE MATCHMAKER’S MARRIAGE FAILED; a memoir and a proper documentation of her life story of Childhood Dysfunction, Call to Purpose, Marriage and Divorce and )

4. And her most recent work; The 31 Days Healing Plan.

She owns and present her own show called HOW THEY HEALED on Africa Magic Family which features the healing journey of numerous celebrities from their trauma and emotional pain.

She has also produced a TV series called DEAR COACH LARA that can be watched on her YouTube Channel.

Her story has been featured in so many media outlasts like The Nation Newspaper, This Day, The Guardian, BBC, TVC, Wazobia TV, Channels TV, Pop Central, Ebony Life TV, R2TV, Spice TV, Nigerian Info, City fm and so on and so forth.

She is active online as @Dearcoachlara on Instagram and YouTube, @LaraKudayisi on Twitter, LinkedIn and LaraKudayisiPage on Facebook.

She is happily married with two children and counting.

 

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How FX Reforms Stopped Lobbying For Dollars — BUA Chairman Dr Abdul Samad Rabiu

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Chairman of BUA Cement Plc, Dr Abdul Samad Rabiu, has stated that recent foreign exchange reforms by the Central Bank of Nigeria have removed the need for companies to seek FX through lobbying. Rabiu made these remarks on Monday in Abuja during a media briefing following BUA Cement Plc’s 9th Annual General Meeting.

He described the new FX policy as more open and driven by market dynamics, contrasting it with previous approaches which, according to him, led to artificial shortages and pushed businesses to seek special access to dollars.

“I was making a joke a few weeks ago that I’ve only seen the current CBN Governor maybe twice since his appointment. That’s because I don’t need him. Before now, I used to visit the CBN every two weeks to lobby for FX. That was the only way to survive,” Rabiu said.

He criticised the old FX regime where the official rate was far below the black market rate, saying it distorted the system and restricted access for businesses.

“The rate was N500 or N600 officially, but nobody could get it. On the street, it was closer to N1,000. It was an artificial rate,” he said.

The BUA chairman commended the current FX reforms for merging rates, saying, “Now, the rate you get is what everyone else gets. You go to the bank, you get FX at the market rate.”

Rabiu voiced confidence in a continued appreciation of the naira, predicting that the exchange rate could drop to around N1,200/$ in the near future, down from nearly N2,000 earlier in the year.

He mentioned that the strengthening of the naira was already reducing the prices of goods, including cement and food items.

Speaking on the issue of cement pricing, Rabiu said the rise in production costs, especially due to FX fluctuations, energy costs, and the need for imported machinery, were responsible for recent price increases. Nevertheless, he noted that BUA had tried to maintain stable prices.

Rabiu explained that BUA Cement’s revenue grew to N877bn in 2024 from N460bn in 2023, even though the company recorded FX losses of N93.9bn.

He stated that the company’s profit before tax rose by 48.2 per cent to N99.63bn, and its return on average capital employed increased to 15 per cent from 10 per cent the previous year.

The company’s earnings per share climbed to N2.18 in 2024 from N2.05 in 2023, marking a 6.3 per cent rise. “This performance was driven by a combination of increased dispatch volumes and prudent pricing strategies, even as the Company absorbed rising input costs.

“Cash generation grew significantly, enabling increased capital expenditure financing and supporting our strategic efforts to reduce exposure to foreign currency obligations. This was achieved by paying down import finance facilities and aligning accrued interest payments with available cash flows,” he said.

Rabiu added that BUA Cement earned N81bn in profit after tax in the first quarter of 2025, surpassing its full-year profit for 2024. He projected that total earnings for 2025 could reach N250bn, attributing this growth to improved efficiency, reduced FX losses, and higher production capacity.

He said the company had no immediate expansion plans beyond its current capacity of 20 million metric tonnes, after recently launching two new cement lines in Sokoto and Edo States.

Rabiu also restated BUA’s focus on shareholder value, announcing a dividend of N2.05 per share, representing a payout ratio of 94 per cent.

The Managing Director and CEO of BUA Cement, Yusuf Binji, also spoke, highlighting the company’s strong financial results, agility, and strategic focus on growth despite a dynamic economic environment.

Binji said the company’s biggest cost—energy—was being tackled through the construction of a 700-tonnes-per-day LNG regasification plant, which would ensure supply and cut costs. He added that BUA Cement had renegotiated its service contracts to favour local content as a way to reduce FX risks and lower operational expenses.

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Plateau Demands Troops’ Withdrawal As Bandits Abduct, Kill 12 In Zamfara, Sokoto

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The Plateau State government has raised concerns over the presence of troops in certain parts of the state and has called for their replacement. This comes in the wake of the killing of 27 farmers last week in an area that has already seen numerous violent deaths this year.

In a statement, the government requested that mobile police units take the place of the soldiers. The administration, through Chris Kwaja, the Special Adviser to the Governor on Peace and Security, also appealed to the Chief of Defence Staff, General Christopher Musa, to establish a special board of inquiry to look into the repeated attacks, with particular attention on the “actions and inactions of the military personnel” stationed in those communities.

Additionally, the state urged the federal government to support local efforts like Operation Rainbow in tackling the ongoing security crisis.

Kwaja explained that the new strategy was essential to provide a more efficient and responsive approach to dealing with threats, especially in combating asymmetrical warfare, an area where MOPOL is better equipped.

Bandits also launched another assault in Zamfara State, where over 100 farmers were kidnapped in Jengebe Village, located in Talatan Mafara Local Government Area. The raid happened during the weekend, with the bandits returning on Sunday evening without encountering resistance.

Reports from RFI Hausa Service, monitored yesterday, indicated that nine farmers were killed while working on their farms during the attacks. The outlet cited a statement from the state government, which claimed it had taken immediate action in response.

Ahmad Dan Manga, the Governor’s Special Adviser on Security, noted that the situation was under control and that a delegation would soon visit the affected area. He added that security has been reinforced with the deployment of soldiers and local vigilantes.

On Sunday night, armed men attacked Dabagi community in Dange-Shuni Local Government Area of Sokoto State, killing three people and abducting several others. Upon arriving, the attackers opened fire indiscriminately, creating fear among residents before escaping with their captives.

A post shared yesterday by security analyst Bakatsine on X stated: “Bandits attacked Dabagi community in Dange-Shuni LGA of Sokoto State last night. They killed three people and kidnapped an unspecified number of male and female residents.”

A resident who witnessed the event confirmed that the assailants moved freely without resistance, taking the victims into the nearby forest.

He recounted that the attackers came in large groups, began shooting immediately, killed three individuals on the spot, and abducted several men and women.

In another development, the Kaduna State Police Command reported the arrest of Mati Bagiyo, a notorious criminal who had managed to avoid capture for 11 years.

According to Mansur Hassan, the Command’s spokesperson, authorities recovered several weapons from Bagiyo, including one AK-47 rifle, one fabricated AK-47, a pump-action shotgun, two locally made pistols, two AK-47 magazines, two LAR magazines, four AK-47 rounds, 10 pump-action cartridges, 80 pistol rounds, a machete, two torchlights, and a cleaning rod.

Hassan stated that Bagiyo had been a major threat in Kaduna and Katsina states, and is now in custody providing important details to investigators.

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FACT CHECK: Kemi Badenoch’s Claim That Her Children Can’t Get Nigerian Citizenship Is False — Report

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Kemi Badenoch, the head of the United Kingdom’s Conservative Party, has stated that she is unable to pass on her Nigerian citizenship to her children because she is a woman.

Speaking on Sunday during an interview with CNN’s Fareed Zakaria, Badenoch attempted to highlight differences between the immigration systems of Nigeria and the United Kingdom.

She argued that Nigerians have an easier path to acquiring British citizenship compared to the difficulty foreigners face in becoming Nigerian citizens.

She said, “It’s virtually impossible, for example, to get Nigerian citizenship. I have that citizenship by virtue of my parents, I can’t give it to my children because I’m a woman.”

She added, “Yet loads of Nigerians come to the UK and stay for a relatively free period of time, acquire British citizenship. We need to stop being naive.”

Badenoch’s statement sparked widespread responses from Nigerians, many of whom questioned the accuracy of her comments.

Born in the UK to Yoruba Nigerian parents, Olukemi Adegoke was raised in Nigeria for much of her early years before returning to the UK at the age of 16.

Before relocating to the UK, she attended a private school in Lagos for her primary education, without needing a student visa due to her Nigerian citizenship.

A student visa (R7A) is typically issued to foreign nationals studying in Nigeria. Nigerian citizens are exempt from this requirement.

She later married Hamish Badenoch, a banker from Scotland, and took his surname, becoming known as Kemi Badenoch.

The couple has three children.

Verification

CableCheck reviewed Badenoch’s claims based on the provisions of the Nigerian Constitution.

Under section 25(1)(c) of the 1999 Constitution, a child born outside Nigeria qualifies as a Nigerian citizen if either parent holds Nigerian citizenship.

This indicates that having one Nigerian parent is enough for a child to be considered a Nigerian citizen by birth. Therefore, Badenoch’s children automatically qualify.

Being a citizen by birth in Nigeria means that a person is granted citizenship from birth, based on their parents’ or grandparents’ Nigerian citizenship, not just their place of birth.

Such citizenship confers all rights under the law, including free entry into Nigeria and protection under the Constitution.

Nigerian law also permits dual citizenship, with specific guidelines.

According to Section 28(1), a person born as a Nigerian citizen may hold citizenship of another country without losing Nigerian citizenship.

However, someone who becomes Nigerian by registration or naturalisation loses Nigerian citizenship if they also acquire or retain another nationality.

Importantly, the Constitution does not make any distinction based on gender when it comes to citizenship by birth.

Gender plays a role only in cases involving foreign spouses.

Section 26(2)(a) of the Constitution provides that “any woman who is or has been married to a citizen of Nigeria” can be granted Nigerian citizenship.

Men who marry Nigerian women are not automatically eligible for citizenship by registration and must instead apply through naturalisation, which has stricter requirements.

This would make it harder for Badenoch’s husband, who is Scottish, to gain Nigerian citizenship automatically. However, this limitation does not apply to their children, who have Nigerian ancestry through their mother and grandparents.

Ashleigh Plumptre: A Case Of Mixed Heritage And Citizenship

Ashleigh Plumptre, 27, is a British-Nigerian professional footballer.

She plays as a central defender for Al-Ittihad in the Saudi Premier League and for Nigeria’s women’s national team, the Super Falcons.

Her father, Tim Plumptre, is of Nigerian heritage and hails from Lagos, while her mother is English.

Prior to the 2022 Women’s Africa Cup of Nations (WAFCON), Plumptre chose to represent Nigeria, acknowledging her Nigerian roots over continuing her football career with England.

In a recent interview, Tim Plumptre said he made sure to instill cultural awareness in his daughter by encouraging her to connect with her Nigerian family, including her grandfather Harry Dotun Plumptre.

Ashleigh Plumptre is one of the 24 players representing Nigeria in the ongoing 2025 WAFCON.

Verdict

The claim by Badenoch that she is unable to pass her Nigerian citizenship to her children is incorrect. This would only be true if she had renounced her Nigerian citizenship.

 

Credit: The Cable

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