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CBA Foundation Advocates Against Man’s Inhumanity To Man In In-laws’ Dealings With Widows

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After Mrs kumbaya (name changed to protect her identity) lost her husband at work in 2005, she was accused of killing him. The accusation did not come from her husband’s brothers but from his sister, who had earlier lost her own husband. It took the combined hard work of the brothers to get their sister off the back of her fellow widow. They told their sister pointedly that she too could face the same accusation she was leveling against their sister-in-law since her husband was deceased too.

 

This real incident underlines one of the greatest puzzles of the twenty-first century: How people who themselves or their mothers or children or relatives are victims or could be victims of the dehumanizing treatment of widows condone, live with, encourage and perpetuate the horrendous denigration inflicted on widows by their in-laws. The continued existence of this kind of situation of dog-eat-dog, or rather man’s inhumanity to man, makes one wonder if Aristotle also considered (Nigerian) in-laws when he asserted that man is a rational animal. There is absolutely nothing rational about the dehumanization widows are subjected to by their in-laws in this clime.

 

A man, who through marriage has become one with the woman he marries, dies, leaving behind his wife and five children (three boys and two girls – this fact is only being added to show that the gender of the children may not even be a factor in how the widow is treated). Almost immediately his siblings and other blood relatives swoop on whatever assets of his they can lay their hands on. If a family meeting is convened, it is not to discuss the welfare of their late brother’s wife and children, who all bear the family name as part of their extended family. No, that is an agenda item for meetings convened by angels, not in-laws of widows. What in-laws of widows convene family meetings for is to make sure they have not missed out on any of the assets their late brother could have had. That is how kind in-laws are to a widow.

 

If Mrs. Kumbaya thought her case was going to be different because her brothers-in-law defended and protected her from their sister, then she apparently may have ascribed angelic virtues to her husband’s brothers. For, as it turned out, that act of defense and protection from their sister was the only kindness the brothers of Mrs. Kumbaya’s late husband extended to her. They never helped or asked about her and her children’s welfare after that. Not even when things became so difficult that she could no longer pay her house rent and ended up on the street.

 

Maybe Mrs. Kumbaya should even count herself lucky. Stories abound of widows who had been abused, molested, raped, or “shared” by in-laws as part of the property left behind by their late brother. There are stories of widows, falsely accused of killing their husbands, being locked up by in-laws in police cells, and the keys thrown into the sea, as it were. What about widows forced to drink the water used to wash the corpse of their husband as proof that they had no hand in their husband’s death. Or the ones forced to spend days and nights in the same room with the corpse of their husband.

 

Nigeria is not exactly a safe haven for women. What with the prevalence of harmful cultural orientations and practices against the female gender, such as the preference of the male child for the female child, female circumcision, FGM (female genital mutilation), forced marriage and denial of inheritance, succession and other rights the male gender takes for granted. Generally, Nigeria is not a friendly environment for women, least of all widows considered to be a highly vulnerable group. In fact, Nigeria is said to be one of the least safe places for women in the world with a survey by the Thomson Reuters Foundation conducted in 2018 ranking Nigeria as the ninth most dangerous country in the world for women.

 

The dehumanizing treatment of widows is part of what the Violence Against Persons (Prohibition) Act, passed in 2015, was intended to stop. The Act, more commonly referred to as the VAPP Act or law, categorizes emotional, verbal, and psychological abuse as offenses and is considered by many legal experts and advocacy groups to be a comprehensive tool for addressing all forms of violence and abuse against all persons. The law seeks to do so by providing maximum protection from the violence of various forms against all persons irrespective of tribe, socio-economic class, religion, and gender and offering effective remedies (financial compensation) for victims of violence and appropriate punishment (globally acceptable deterrents) for offenders.

It is not known how much of the general population, including in-laws who routinely dehumanize widows, is aware of the VAPP law. While ignorance of the law offers no excuse in a court of law, it is imperative that more enlightenment be created on the existence of the VAPP Act and all its provisions against many of the inimical practices that in-laws perpetrate against widows in the name of culture. Maybe, just maybe, some in-laws, who are themselves uncomfortable with those practices but take part because of family and community pressure, could be emboldened by knowledge of the Act to become advocates and campaigners against such practices.

Back to Mrs. Kumbaya, for those concerned about her and what must have happened to her after she ended up on the street. They can heave a sigh of relief that the good Lord sent his angel in the form of the Chinwe Bode-Akinwande Foundation (CBA Foundation) and they took her off the street. Mrs. Kumbaya now lives in an apartment rented for her by the Foundation, which also supplied her with a mattress, other household items, and foodstuff.

 

The CBA Foundation, founded in 2015, the same year the VAPP Act was enacted, is a strong advocate for the enforcement of the Act. Along with other civil society groups, it is pushing for the domestication of the Act in states of the federation that are yet to enact a similar act. Rigorous enforcement of the VAPP law across the federation will undoubtedly accelerate the mission of the Foundation, which is to promote “the protection of [underprivileged] widows and their vulnerable children in Nigeria, to promote immediate and lasting hope, confidence and courage in their lives.” The Foundation pursues its mission under its 5-point agenda of women empowerment/capacity building, health intervention, nutrition, quality basic education, and a self-employment scheme.

 

This piece is not intended to demonize in-laws. The writer is himself an in-law by multiples. It is to call for a change of heart and attitude in society, particularly among in-laws, towards widows, knowing that we, our mothers, daughters, neighbors, and friends are or could become widows. In-laws should join public-spirited people across the country in supporting the CBA Foundation in its advocacy for enforcement of the VAPP law and in providing succor for underprivileged widows and their vulnerable children.

 

There are many Mrs. Kumbayas out there but the resources and reach of angels such as CBA Foundation are limited. Men and women of goodwill, including in-laws who have now seen the light, can extend the Foundation’s resources and reach by supporting it in its mission.

Contact the Foundation today by sending an email to them at: [email protected].

AUTHOR: Ony Kachi

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NNPCL Extends Open Invitation To Former President Obasanjo For Tour Of Port Harcourt Refinery

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The Nigerian National Petroleum Company Limited (NNPCL) has extended an invitation to former President Olusegun Obasanjo for a tour of the Port Harcourt Refinery to verify its operational status.

This development follows Obasanjo’s recent interview with Channels Television, where he cited advice from “Shell Petroleum Development Company (SPDC)” suggesting the refinery would not function effectively.

According to the former president, “SPDC,” which was approached to acquire equity in the refinery, expressed concerns about corruption impeding its operations.

Obasanjo further alleged that NNPCL has been misleading Nigerians about the refinery’s functionality.

Responding to the claims, NNPCL’s Chief Corporate Communications Officer, Mr. Olufemi Soneye, respectfully invited the former president to visit the facility, emphasizing the company’s commitment to transparency and accountability.

Soneye said: “Furthermore, we extend an open invitation to President Obasanjo for a tour of the rehabilitated refineries to witness firsthand the progress made under the new “NNPC Limited.”

Soneye also invited Obasanjo to join the NNPCL in its determination to guarantee the country’s energy security.

“We invite our esteemed former president to join us in this effort as we continue to deliver energy security for our nation and provide tangible benefits to Nigerians.

“His wisdom and experience are invaluable, and we assure him that his advice will always be welcomed and appreciated,” he said.

Soneye explained that the NNPCL did not only carry out a turnaround maintenance on the plant but it embarked on a complete overhaul of the refinery.

He said: “As part of this transformation, “NNPC Limited” has gone beyond oil and gas to become an integrated energy company.

“One of our notable achievements is the complete rehabilitation of the Port Harcourt Refining Company (PhRC) and Warri Refinery.

“This process was not merely the “Turnaround Maintenance (TAM)” of the past but a full-scale overhaul designed to meet world-class standards. Similarly, we are currently conducting the same comprehensive rehabilitation of the old Port Harcourt Refinery and Kaduna Refinery.”

He added that NNPCL has evolved from being a government corporation to a private entity with limited liability.

He said owing to the transition, NNPCL has also moved on from being a loss-making organization to a profit-driven international energy firm.

The new “NNPC Limited,” he said, is committed not only to enhancing these refineries but also to maintaining them to global standards.

Soneye noted that NNPCL will ensure their sustainable operation and contribute significantly to Nigeria’s energy security.

He said: “Regarding his recent comments, we would like to respectfully clarify the current state of the “NNPC.”

The “NNPC” has undergone a transformative journey, evolving from a government corporation into a private entity—”NNPC Limited.”

“This transition has marked a significant shift from being a loss-making organization to a profit-oriented global energy company.”

“We deeply respect and hold President Obasanjo in the highest regard as a distinguished statesman who has contributed significantly to the progress of our nation.

“He has every right to share enduring commitment to the growth and development of Nigeria. Together, we can continue to build a brighter future for our great nation.”

Soneye, who was also requested to react to a media report that NNPCL was to stop the supply of crude oil to Dangote Refinery said, “No need to respond to falsehood.”

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Naijahottestgist Unveils Man Of The Year, Company Of The Year, Young Person Of The Year, And Public Servant Of The Year!

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In a year filled with trials and triumphs, these individuals and organizations have risen above challenges to embody resilience, innovation, and exceptional leadership. From the unbreakable spirit of the Man of the Year to the groundbreaking strides of Dangote Refinery, the transformative efforts of Stella Okotete, and the impactful reforms led by Olubunmi Tunji-Ojo, these stories inspire hope and progress for a brighter Nigeria.

1. Meet the Man of the Year

The Man of the Year is no ordinary person. He’s a Nigerian who has lived through the realities of 2024—one of the toughest years yet.

He is the man who has endured the hardship of a nation in flux. From waking up each day to face the high cost of fuel to navigating skyrocketing food prices, he’s felt the weight of every naira spent. Insecurity loomed over his daily life, yet he carried on with courage, protecting what mattered most.

Through it all, this man refused to break. His resilience, grit, and determination to keep moving forward in the face of overwhelming odds set him apart. He is not celebrated for wealth or fame but for his strength, perseverance, and the hope he carries in his heart for a better tomorrow.

The Man of the Year is a symbol of every Nigerian who has faced the same struggles, stood firm, and chosen to believe in a brighter future. His story is your story—one of survival, strength, and the unbreakable spirit of Naija.

Here’s to the Man of the Year. He is proof that no matter how hard the times, resilience will always shine through.

2. Young Person of the Year: Stella Erhuwuoghene Okotete

Stella Okotete, Executive Director of the Nigerian Export-Import Bank (NEXIM), stands out as a trailblazer promoting youth and women’s participation in business, governance, and politics. A visionary leader, she spearheads innovative initiatives at NEXIM, including the Women and Youth Export Development Facility, which provides low-interest loans, and the Nigerian Export-Import Bank Academy (NEXA), a certified digital platform for export-import education.

With degrees from Benson Idahosa University and NOUN, alongside certifications from global institutions such as Harvard, Oxford, and Columbia Business School, Okotete has held significant political roles, including secretary of the APC Election Planning and Monitoring Committee in 2023. Her contributions to public service include serving as Special Assistant on MDGs for Delta State, where she aligned policies with sustainable development goals and implemented impactful programs in education, healthcare, and poverty alleviation.

As co-founder of the E’Girls Foundation, she has championed girl-child rights and human capacity development since 2000. Her work has also led to groundbreaking efforts like outlawing female circumcision in Ughelli North and driving school enrollment through the “War Against Loitering and Hawking During School Hours” initiative.

Committed to empowering women in governance, she developed a strategy to train 20 million women for public office and conceptualized the Progressive Women Trust Fund, fostering financial support for female leaders. Okotete’s relentless dedication to service, innovation, and empowerment makes her a standout leader transforming Nigeria’s socio-economic landscape.

3. Nigerian company of the year

Dangote Refinery

The Dangote Refinery is a game-changer for Nigeria’s oil industry. Located in the Lekki Free Trade Zone, Lagos, it’s the largest single-train refinery in the world, with a capacity to process 650,000 barrels of crude oil per day.

This massive project, worth over $19 billion, is expected to meet 100% of Nigeria’s oil needs and even have a surplus for export. The refinery will produce various petroleum products, including diesel, kerosene, and gasoline.

Some impressive features of the Dangote Refinery include:

– *Pipeline Infrastructure*: The largest sub-sea pipeline infrastructure in the world, spanning 1,100 kilometers.

– *Power Generation*: A 435MW Power Plant that can meet the total power requirement of Ibadan DisCo.

– *Job Creation*: The refinery is expected to provide 135,000 permanent jobs in the region.

The refinery began production in January 2024, starting with diesel fuel and aviation fuel. With its advanced technology and massive capacity, the Dangote Refinery is set to revolutionize Nigeria’s oil industry and boost the country’s economy.

4. Nigerian public servant of the year

Olubunmi Tunji-Ojo, the Minister of Interior in Nigeria, has indeed been associated with efforts to bring about positive change and reform in the country.

Some of the key areas where Tunji-Ojo has been instrumental in driving reform include:

1. *Prison Reform*: Tunji-Ojo has been advocating for prison reform, aiming to improve the living conditions and rehabilitation programs for inmates.

2. *Immigration Reform*: He has been working to modernize Nigeria’s immigration system, making it more efficient and effective in managing the country’s borders.

3. *Disaster Management*: Tunji-Ojo has been instrumental in strengthening Nigeria’s disaster management capabilities, ensuring that the country is better prepared to respond to natural disasters and emergencies.

4. *Internal Security*: He has been working to enhance internal security in Nigeria, focusing on community policing and intelligence-driven law enforcement.

These efforts demonstrate Tunji-Ojo’s commitment to driving positive change and reform in Nigeria, particularly in the areas of justice, security, and humanitarian response.

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Inside Delta: Police Arrest Man For Allegedly Stabbing Neighbour To Death Over Rice

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The Delta State Police Command confirmed the arrest of 30-year-old Daniel Onyejekwe for allegedly stabbing his neighbor, Christian, to death over a dispute about rice.

The incident occurred on New Year’s Day in the Ogwanja area of Sapele, Delta State.

The Police Public Relations Officer, Delta State Command, SP Bright Edafe, confirmed the development on Thursday, saying, “It is confirmed, and the suspect is in custody.

The two were fighting and injured themselves badly. Unfortunately, one, Christian, died.”

An eyewitness reported that the altercation started when rice was being shared along Boyo Road in Ogwanja.

An argument ensued between Onyejekwe and the deceased, leading to a physical fight.

The eyewitness stated, “Christian and Daniel started dragging the rice, and during the fight, Daniel picked a bottle and stabbed Christian multiple times. The vigilante rushed him to the hospital, but he was confirmed dead on arrival.”

The remains of the deceased have been deposited at a mortuary, while the police have launched an investigation. SP Edafe assured residents that the suspect would be prosecuted after the investigation was concluded.

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